While their children would scurry away in fear, my mind would reel with the obvious question, as I tried to bite my tongue. Once, it was too much for me. Rounding off on the astonished mother, I demanded, "How in tarnation are they going to learn to cook-- if they aren't in the kitchen?!"
AND THEN I BECAME A PARENT!!!
Finally, I understood how difficult it is to get anything accomplished with little ones under your elbows all day long! It's so much easier to pop in a DVD, or send them to the playroom; anything for some breathing-room! But one day, I stopped to consider what I was attempting to accomplish: What are my primary goals anyway?
Sure, cooking, cleaning, and laundry are important. (Did I mention dish-washing?) But these never-ending jobs aren't my primary focus. As a Mom, I am a teacher, even if I don't know half of what I should. As a teacher, what am I conveying to these little ones? Are my "chores" a burden; or do I use them to bless my family? Am I simply "doing my duty" or do I view them as teaching opportunities? Just what am I trying to accomplish?
"Give a kid some food, and you feed her for a day;
Teach a kid to cook and you feed her for a lifetime."
The above post is an excerpt from my newest article on Squidoo: Teach a Kid to Cook. It would be a huge favor if you would check it out and give it a rating, or leave a comment. Thanks!
Thanks! This is a great reminder that as parents, we teach with our actions as well as with our words. One of the fondest memories of learning to cook when I was little was when I had grown enough to actually SEE THE BOTTOM of the pan!
ReplyDeleteYou have a good point. And if you wait until you think a child is ready, it's probably too late to catch their interest.
ReplyDeleteI'm heading out to your Squidoo article now.